This will be the last time I am posting my blog. With my
age, I am finding that I don’t write as clean and clearly as I would like and
unintentionally offended others. So I want to
apologize to anyone that I have offended by some thoughtless remarks and I ask
for your forgiveness. I also want my
family to know I love them how grateful I am for their service and compassion.
They certainly have lightened our load and have made our home a symbol of their
love and selfless service.
Recently, I am especially
thankful for Chuck, Laura and Deborah for all their help with the house. As I
walk around the house I am surrounded and reminded of the acts of service that
they provided.
I love my china hutch
more now because Deborah arranged it so beautifully.
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The china hutch |
She made it more elegant and demonstrated to
me that less is the best.
Also, I can
now open my curtains to look out into my back yard through clean glass.
Deborah has a special glove that she
tirelessly used it to make the glass sparkle. (I really have to get one.)
She also gave me the idea of putting the
pictures of Mom and Aunt Gerrie above my piano.
I love them there.
On the piano I
have just the Savior, our wedding picture and my horsehair pot.
When I look at the wall, it reminds me of my
heritage, my Saviors love of His children, the best decision I made when I
married Willard and the importance of service and the happiness it brings.
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A simplified piano arrangement |
When I go to my cupboards, I am so thankful for Laura and
Deborah’s efforts in cleaning out all my outdated things and just throwing away
stuff I didn’t need. They organized and
simplified by cupboards. Deborah really
helped us with our storage in getting rid of all bad bulging and out of dated
cans. I am so thankful for all of her
painting, cleaning and attention to detail. She taught me by example that
simple is the best and I have tried to use that example in redoing the house to
the best of my ability. (She certainly
has more ability than I do.) She was a trooper; she paid a price of the service
with an aching back. Her service will
always be remembered in the house.
Laura, did such a great job also. I really appreciated her love, service and
support. She opened up my eyes to the
possibilities of our home by insisting that we get rid of all the clutter that
would detract from the home. She helped
me make the house larger by getting rid of the junk. She with Chuck and the help of Lance, her
friend, helped us get rid of truck loads of junk. She really went the extra mile in helping us
get the home ready to show. I certainly
would recommend her to help anyone to sale their home. I think her broker John Scott has the best
program to get a home sold. I was very impressed with all their efforts,
especially using a professional photographer to take pictures of the home. She did a great job in selling the home and
graciously helped us get out of the contract so that we could stay in it, of
which I will be eternally grateful h daily.
She helped me appreciate and love the home I did have.
I am so grateful also for Chucks help. Every time I use the shower door or the
toilet holder or other things he fixed in the house, I think of Chuck and
marvel at how much joy it brings me just to have those things fixed that we had
just been living with. I so appreciated
his help with packing up the truck at the expense of his back. He truly went above and beyond his
strength. He is a great son-in-law.
I am also grateful to our other children, for their love, support
and advice. I am grateful for 9 wonderful children that help us keep on the
right path.
Lastly I am so grateful for a dear husband, who went along
with all my whims. He worked until he couldn’t move because of his bad back,
(bad backs seem to be an issue in the family).
He supported me and loved me throughout it all. I so appreciate his love and his
sacrifice.
I did feel good about moving and then when we got the home
all cleaned and fixed up, I didn’t feel good about leaving the home because of
all the service and love reminders that are here in our home now. It is like being engulfed, surrounded and
comforted by my children’s, husband’s and the Saviors love for me. It brings
quiet serenity to my soul.
In fact, it has had a great effect on my spirit. I have been trying to arrange for the primary
“I Stand All Amazed” for the primary Sacrament program. I have been struggling with writing it with the
help of another sister for months. However, it just wasn’t working because it
was too heavy and thick and we wrote too hard of an accompaniment for our
new primary pianist to play. Monday
morning I woke up with simpler and lighter idea’s for the song. I wrote it in 2 days and the chorister was
thrilled with it. I know the Lords
helped me with this arrangement but it was just like cleaning house, I just got
rid of the junk.
So the lessons that I have learned through all this
experience is first, get rid of the junk and keep things neat, simple and clean
both in physically, mentally and spiritually; less is more. Second, don’t be so
quick to make decisions. Be patient and deliberate in making decisions. Lastly, be happy with what you have. Be grateful that you have a great husband,
children and Savoir that love and supports you in spite of your mistakes.